Cannot wait to make you moan,
then make you wriggle and dripping, he whispered into my ear, this beautiful
Friday night, am so amazed he wanted to get down. Decided to put some spices
into my regular open and close, press the button, in and out old-fashioned way
I was used to.
Laid down horizontally, on my bed
with my sexy sheer bodysuit’s night wear, beautifully made with an opening like
a hole for easy penetration.
He could not have ignored me
tonight, was ready to have me moan and wriggle, I thought I was an expert
until I realized I am taking so long to peak, he grab a pillow and placed it
under my hip to help my pelvis push up. He started touching erotically, like
his hands will be permanent on me, kissing me passionately and very slowly
until I was close to the Big O,
He can really understand my moan
of pleasure, and path me down when he feels my moan is that of pain and
gradually insert in me, his womb raider. He jumped on me, I received him with
so much love, we have not had this in a long time, he never felt he should ask
me for it, sometimes I feel am too fat and no longer good enough for him, he
married me when I was so light weight , beautiful and with a flat tummy, now
everything has changed after four kids.
I have tried everything possible
to be back in my youthful shame but none of it has worked for me. Today, my
spouse and I explore our hidden issues and we have a true intimate experience,
this we have lost a while ago. I feel so happy and fulfill, I have my man back,
am going to keep this up and work on my flaws, this are the things going on in
my minds. Now let me share with you the importance of love making in
marriage: There are many great reasons to increase the amount of sexual
activity in your marriage. Research has shown it boosts your immune
system, improves brain function, burns calories, lowers stress and
improves sleep.
In an article published on
my Journey to Surrender blog in May 2016: Here is what her research and
study shows “having sex more than once a week increases the chances for a
highly satisfying sex life by a factor of 12 compared to those having sex less
than once a week. That is not a 12% difference, that is 12 TIMES.
However, regardless of how often
you make love, making love more often pays huge dividends in one very key
area of your marriage: love.
5 Ways Lovemaking Grows Love
Here are 5 ways in which sexual
intimacy grows the love in your marriage.
1) It bonds you together
– During lovemaking and especially during orgasm, the hormone oxytocin is
released. It’s a powerful bonding brain chemical that gives us a
feeling of attachment. Another hormone released after lovemaking, vasopressin,
has similar bonding effects. “Essentially, vasopressin released after
intercourse is significant in that it creates a desire in the male to stay
with his mate, inspires a protective sense (in humans, perhaps this
is what creates almost a jealous tendency) about his mate, and drives him to
protect his territory and his offspring.”
2) It deepens your emotional
connection – in addition to these bonding effects, making love builds
intimacy in your relationship because by its very nature sex invites
vulnerability. You cannot have intimacy without being known, and you can’t be
known unless you are willing to be vulnerable. The bedroom (or wherever) tends
to be a place of deep vulnerability. For most men, sexual satisfaction opens a
wide pathway to seeking (yes seeking) an emotional connection with their wives,
and for many women, making love tends to cause them to want more sex. This
creates a positive cycle of intimacy.
3) It changes the atmosphere in
your marriage – the positive cycle of intimacy created by regular
lovemaking causes a prevailing sense of sexual satisfaction and a deep
sense of general well-being. A man who feels that his wife desires him will
feel very loved, and when he also knows that she is satisfied by him it boosts
his self-confidence. These give him the feeling that he can take on the world.
Wives will similarly enjoy the well-being created by the increased intimacy and
emotional connection. It’s a win-win.
4) It says “I love you” to the
higher drive spouse – When a lower-drive spouse pursues sexual intimacy
with his or her higher drive mate, it sends a very clear message, “Your needs
are a priority to me and I want to satisfy you.” In short, expressing love in
the form of sexual intimacy says “I love you” loud and clear.
5) It’s the ultimate expression
of oneness – God designed sex purposefully to be the pleasurable
pinnacle of marital intimacy. It is a beautiful love expression that is
reserved by God solely for husband and wife. Sexual intimacy is where God’s
plan that “the two become one flesh” takes on a literal meaning.
Do you want more love in your
marriage? Try raising the priority of and setting aside time and energy for
making love. It will make love grow. If you notice I did not go into
scriptures in this article, I listened to all of the advises and I am here to
work with you and help build that relationship/marriage. Until my next column
why not allow your man gain full access to the vineyard with his God give womb
raider.
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