Self-love
is not for the purpose of ego or nor does is have anything to do with others.
Self-love is about our own receptivity to it, for the purpose of remembering
our worthiness, already wholeness, instead of striving or fighting for it.
You
begin to know your truth from its own conscious depths and what this really
means; that you are no longer trying to get love.
You
are being the source of LOVE
You
are no longer trying to relate from a wound, you relate from self-love.
When
a MAN relates from self-love. He is no longer avoiding commitment. This is just
a defence mechanism to protect himself from a Woman, “fill my empty hole”
wounds. He is no longer being responsible to save a woman through his love and
attention.
He
can now open his heart and share his truth without her agenda and reaction and
without the pressure of needing to fix, marry or save her.
When
A Woman comes from self-love first. She is no longer resenting A Man from
avoiding her own inner abandonment, using him as an obsession, fantasy or
“object” to get her needs met. Chasing a man and trying everything to gets her
man committed.
Instead
she knows her wounds and takes responsibility for her capacity to self-love,
meeting a man from real inner love, true relating and presence connection,
instead of being overcome with unconscious coping mechanisms and fears.
On
the path of waking ourselves up, we meet a relationship.
It’s
time for us to see when we are relating more with others from our wounds /Fear
more than our hearts.️
We
can’t keep blaming each other because our wounds trigger their wounds, we must
go to the heart and root of the matter.
One
approach is to rewrite your relationships and start over again.
The
wounds we have want to possess its “object” of love from a place of lack of
fear, and the heart is content to just love, near or far, does not matter.
A
High-Quality Man wants to choose a woman who embodies loving herself when
taking off all the masks, demanding your own naked, raw honest depth, integrity
and leadership. Aka the Queen
A
High Value Woman want to choose a man who knows his truth and won’t change it
for you to feel more loved and who won’t take your toxic manipulation as
love...
Aka
the King
Instead
penetrating your emotions, demanding
that
you live in your deepest heart.
The
root is our most painful triggers and it’s only in that moment that we have the
golden ticket to investigate and discern if we’re relating from wound or from
heart.
Yearning
or acting desperately for something, is telling the universe you don’t already
have it inside you and you already are abundant and whole, so you do!
Once
you remove old relationship patterns that no longer serve you...
You’ll
find it easier to surround yourself with those who feed your soul, nourish your
heart and nurture your aliveness.
You'll
make connections that resonate light you up and expand your heart, and also
find the courage to discover more and more of what you don’t want, so you have
the wisdom to know the difference.
And
You
will attract the Relationship Your Heart Desire
Because
You’re Worth It.
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